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Divorce Counseling Andover MN

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. Read on for more.

The Center for Relationship Therapy
(612) 379-8750
1135 5th Street, Northeast
Minneapolis, MN
Services
Yoga, Wellness Training, Weight Management, Substance Abuse, Stress Management, Sex Therapy, Reiki, Psychotherapy, Physical Exercise, Pain Management, Other, Hypnosis/Hypnotherapy, Guided Imagery, Family Therapy, EFT, EMDR, Dreamwork Therapy, CranioSacral Therapy, Breathwork, Addiction
Membership Organizations
American Holistic Medical Association

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Ms. Janet K Schlegel
(763) 260-1889
Soul Work Counseling11108 Zealand Avenue South
Champlin, MN
Specialties
Sexual Abuse, Divorce, Relationship Issues, Dissociative Disorders
Qualification
School: Adler Graduate School
Year of Graduation: 2005
Years In Practice: 5 Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: Female
Age: Adolescents,Adults,Elders
Average Cost
$100 - $120
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: Yes
Accepts Credit Cards: Yes
Accepted Insurance Plans: BlueCross and/or BlueShield

Carolyn Goodell
(612) 567-7995
Alliance Family Counseling7644 Humboldt Av N
Brooklyn Park, MN
Specialties
Relationship Issues, Divorce, Depression, Dissociative Disorders
Qualification
School: Adler Graduate School
Year of Graduation: 1998
Years In Practice: 1 Year
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: Female
Average Cost
$30 - $90
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: Yes
Accepts Credit Cards: No

Beth Marolt
(651) 538-6960
Healing Through Change Counseling,LLC344 1st Ave. SW
Forest Lake, MN
Specialties
marriage issues, Behavioral Issues, Chronic Pain or Illness
Qualification
School: St. Mary''s University of Minnesota
Year of Graduation: 2009
Years In Practice: 1 Year
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Children (6 to 10),Preteens / Tweens (11 to 13),Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19),Adults,Elders (65+)
Average Cost
$70 - $80
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: No
Accepts Credit Cards: No
Accepted Insurance Plans: Out of Network

Dr. Denise P Wood
(763) 260-1715 x10
Dr. Denise Wood LLC.19 Lake Court
Saint Paul, MN
Specialties
Life Coaching, Divorce, Impulse Control Disorders
Qualification
School: Illinois School of Professional Psychology
Year of Graduation: 2000
Years In Practice: 10+ Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19),Adults
Average Cost
$140+
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: Yes
Accepts Credit Cards: Yes

Mr. Harry Greenberg
Infinite Aperture Counseling
(612) 870-9418
2435 Garfield Avenue S.
Minneapolis, MN
Credentials
Credentials: LGSW
Licensed in Minnesota
4 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Addictions/Substance, Aging, Couple or Marital Issues, Domestic Violence, Family Dysfunction, Interpersonal Relationships, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Education/Personal Development, Life Transitions, Anger Management, Men's Issues
Populations Served
Children of Divorce, Offenders/Perpetrators, Caregivers, Step Families
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59), Seniors (60 +)

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Jon Newcomb Counseling Services
(612) 227-2001
1340 81st Av
Minneapolis, MN
 
Mr. Thomas E. King, MSW,MED,LICSW,Certified Coach
(651) 389-4412
3820 Cleveland Ave., N,Suite 400
New Brighton, MN
Specialties
Anxiety or Fears,Career Counseling,Depression,Life Coaching,Relationship Issues,Spirituality
Gender
Male
Education
Degrees in psychology, social work, and human resource development. Also certified as a business and executive coach through Learning University.
Insurance
Yes
Membership Organizations
Grow it Forward, LLC

Dr. Sharon Stein McNamara
(651) 760-5181
Sharon Stein McNamara, Psychology, Inc.521 Tanglewood Drive
Shoreview, MN
Specialties
Divorce, Child or Adolescent, Asperger's Syndrome, Dissociative Disorders
Qualification
School: Harvard Graduate School of Education
Year of Graduation: 1991
Years In Practice: 15+ Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Average Cost
$150 - $200
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: No
Accepts Credit Cards: Yes
Accepted Insurance Plans: Aetna

Therapy For Relationships
(763) 260-1782
Therapy For Relationships7225 Forestview Lane N
Maple Grove, MN
Specialties
Relationship Issues, Stress, Men's Therapy, Divorce
Qualification
School: St Mary''s College
Year of Graduation: 1980
Years In Practice: 20+ Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Adults
Average Cost
$140 - $140
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: No
Accepts Credit Cards: No
Accepted Insurance Plans: Aetna

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11 Quick Questions about Divorce

11 Quick Questions About Divorce


1. How does the quality of one's relationship with their ex-spouse influence the psychological adjustment of their children?

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. When parents model angry, selfish and bitter interaction with one another, their children learn that these disrespectful behaviors are the protocol for how people should be treated. It is no wonder that children from high conflict divorce have a higher incidence of failed relationships later in life. I believe this is why.

2. You write, "Smart parenting is all about trading the momentary relief of venting anger and frustration at your co-parent for the benefit of raising healthier, more productive, and less stressed children." How can a parent deal with their anger in a healthy way that does not cause more pain to their children?
Break a clay pot, scream into a pillow, make a voodoo doll out of modeling clay. Do what ever you want (as long as it is legal and outside of your children's presence) but do not expose your children to toxic emotion. Oh yes, and read my book.

3. How can a person de-escalate the conflict between themselves and their ex-spouse?

It takes two people to fight. The key to de-scalation is ignoring insult and offering reasonable compromises. This takes practice because often, in poor co-parenting relationships people cannot resist the urge to fight fire with fire. Actually to continue the imagery, it is best to fight fire with water. Parents often ask, "Why shoud I give the co-parent what he/she wants?" The answer to this is "because when you can, and when it doesn't much matter one way or the other (i.e. an extra few minutes here and there) the reduction in conflict benefits the kids."

4. What is the "package" that can make a difference in the quality of communication between the ex-spouses?

Resist the urge to "dig" or "poke" with sarcasm and direct insults. Understand that if you hate the co-parent, it is more difficult to love the part of your child that came from the co-parent. Take relief in the fact that any communication you have with the co-parent has a beginning and an end (at least for the moment) and when the contact is over you don't have to go back home and sleep with them.

5. Can you share with us some practical tips for negotiating with a former spouse who is a jerk?
Again, realize that giving in on minor issues is not a sign of personal weakness; on the contrary it is s sign of strength. Understand that what makes people as difficult as they are is that they "enjoy the fight." Fighting, bickering and nitpicking is feeding a part of them that they enjoy -- and that most likely y...

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