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Divorce Counseling Centerville UT

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. Read on for more.

Mrs. Rocio Paredes-Mora
Private Practice
(801) 386-0167
Carriage Crossing
Bountiful, UT
Credentials
Credentials: LCSW
Licensed in Utah
2 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Couple or Marital Issues, Domestic Violence, Family Dysfunction, Interpersonal Relationships, Multicultural Issues, Parenting Issues, Pregnancy/Childbirth, Sexual Abuse/Rape, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Immigration/Newcomer
Populations Served
Immigrants/Refugees, Interracial Families/Couples
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

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Ms. Deanna Rosen
Deanna L. Rosen, LCSW
(801) 288-1062
970 East Murray-Holladay Road Suite 2E
Salt Lake City, UT
Credentials
Credentials: LCSW
Licensed in Utah
33 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Addictions/Substance, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Interpersonal Relationships, Multicultural Issues, Sexual Orientation, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Gender Identity, Life Transitions, Personality Disorders, Sexuality Issu
Populations Served
ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics), Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual, Step Families
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

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Larry A Anderson
(801) 299-3411
Bountiful, UT
Practice Areas
Addictions and Dependency, Clinical Mental Health, Aging/Gerontological, Couples & Family, Depression/Grief/Chronically or Terminally Ill
Certifications
National Certified Counselor

Sandra Borrelli
(801) 701-8113
Salt Lake City, UT
Specialties
Relationship Issues, Depression, Divorce, Bipolar Disorder
Qualification
School: Pacific Graduate School of Psychology
Year of Graduation: 1983
Years In Practice: 20+ Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Adults,Elders (65+)
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: No
Accepted Insurance Plans: United Behavioral Health

Chris Cavin, LCSW
(385) 232-6482
525 E 100 South Suite 120
Salt Lake City, UT
Specialties
Addictions or Substance Abuse,Anger Management,Anxiety or Fears,Career Counseling,Depression,Divorce,Domestic Abuse or Violence,Life Coaching,Loss or Grief,Relationship Issues
Gender
Male
Education
Undergraduate Degree: BS 2002 University of Utah, Political Science/EconomicsGraduate Degree: MA 2007 University of Chicago, Social Sciences/ReligionGraduate Degree: MSW 2008 University of Utah, Social Work
Insurance
No
Membership Organizations
Center for Human Potential

Ms. Anne Evans-Cazier
Evans Counseling, LLC
(801) 582-0208
1308 S. 1700 E. Suite 210
Salt Lake City, UT
Credentials
Credentials: LCSW
Licensed in Utah
8 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Interpersonal Relationships, Stress, Life Transitions, Anger Management
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59), Seniors (60 +)

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Mrs. Nicole Turville
Family Counseling Center
(801) 261-3500
5250 So. Commerce Drive (320 W. ) Suite 250
Murray, UT
Credentials
Credentials: LCSW
Licensed in Utah
5 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Addictions/Other (gambling, sex, etc.), Addictions/Substance, Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Bipolar Disorders, Career/Employment Concerns, Child Abuse and Neglect, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Interpersonal Relationships
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

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John Waterbury
(801) 298-2334
Bountiful, UT
Practice Areas
Couples & Family, Sexual Abuse Recovery, Depression/Grief/Chronically or Terminally Ill, Mental Health/Agency Counseling
Certifications
National Certified Counselor

Terry Nani
(801) 294-7800
Salt Lake City, UT
Practice Areas
Childhood & Adolescence, Couples & Family
Certifications
National Certified Counselor

Jonathan Swinton, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
(801) 647-9951
136 South Main Street, Suite 820
Salt Lake City, UT
Specialties
Domestic Abuse or Violence,Infertility or Adoption,Parenting,Relationship Issues,Sex Therapy
Gender
Male
Education
Doctoral Studies: Marriage and Family Therapy, Kansas State UniversityPost-Degree Certificate: Medical Family Therapy, University of Nebraska Medical CenterMasters Degree: Marriage and Family Therapy, University of NebraskaBachelors: Utah State U
Insurance
No
Membership Organizations
Swinton Counseling

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11 Quick Questions about Divorce

11 Quick Questions About Divorce


1. How does the quality of one's relationship with their ex-spouse influence the psychological adjustment of their children?

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. When parents model angry, selfish and bitter interaction with one another, their children learn that these disrespectful behaviors are the protocol for how people should be treated. It is no wonder that children from high conflict divorce have a higher incidence of failed relationships later in life. I believe this is why.

2. You write, "Smart parenting is all about trading the momentary relief of venting anger and frustration at your co-parent for the benefit of raising healthier, more productive, and less stressed children." How can a parent deal with their anger in a healthy way that does not cause more pain to their children?
Break a clay pot, scream into a pillow, make a voodoo doll out of modeling clay. Do what ever you want (as long as it is legal and outside of your children's presence) but do not expose your children to toxic emotion. Oh yes, and read my book.

3. How can a person de-escalate the conflict between themselves and their ex-spouse?

It takes two people to fight. The key to de-scalation is ignoring insult and offering reasonable compromises. This takes practice because often, in poor co-parenting relationships people cannot resist the urge to fight fire with fire. Actually to continue the imagery, it is best to fight fire with water. Parents often ask, "Why shoud I give the co-parent what he/she wants?" The answer to this is "because when you can, and when it doesn't much matter one way or the other (i.e. an extra few minutes here and there) the reduction in conflict benefits the kids."

4. What is the "package" that can make a difference in the quality of communication between the ex-spouses?

Resist the urge to "dig" or "poke" with sarcasm and direct insults. Understand that if you hate the co-parent, it is more difficult to love the part of your child that came from the co-parent. Take relief in the fact that any communication you have with the co-parent has a beginning and an end (at least for the moment) and when the contact is over you don't have to go back home and sleep with them.

5. Can you share with us some practical tips for negotiating with a former spouse who is a jerk?
Again, realize that giving in on minor issues is not a sign of personal weakness; on the contrary it is s sign of strength. Understand that what makes people as difficult as they are is that they "enjoy the fight." Fighting, bickering and nitpicking is feeding a part of them that they enjoy -- and that most likely y...

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