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Divorce Counseling Lake Geneva WI

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. Read on for more.

Susan White
(224) 643-0758
Lifeskills Center, Ltd.800 North Main Street
Antioch, IL
Specialties
Relationship Issues, Divorce, Loss or Grief, Thinking Disorders
Qualification
School: George Williams College of Aurora University
Year of Graduation: 2001
Years In Practice: 10+ Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19),Adults,Elders (65+)
Average Cost
$80 - $200
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: Yes
Accepted Insurance Plans: APS Healthcare

Mrs. Lindsey Traudt
(815) 246-3646 x704
Meridian Behavioral Health3923 Mercy Drive
Mchenry, IL
Specialties
Depression, Marriage Counseling, Child or Adolescent, Mood Disorders
Qualification
School: Argosy University
Year of Graduation: 2009
Years In Practice: 2 Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Children (6 to 10),Preteens / Tweens (11 to 13),Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19),Adults
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: No
Accepts Credit Cards: Yes

Mrs. Sarah Jones, MA, LCPC
815-344-5061 Ext. 703
3923 Mercy Dr.,Suite F
Mchenry, IL
Specialties
ADHD,Anger Management,Anxiety or Fears,Child or Adolescent Issues,Depression,Dissociative Disorders,Divorce,Domestic Abuse or Violence,Impulse Control Disorders,Loss or Grief
Education
Sarah received her Bachelors of Science in Psychology from Illinois State University and her Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology with a Counseling Specialization from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology.
Insurance
Yes
Membership Organizations
Meridian Behavioral Health

Dr. Vincent Fish
Family Therapy Center of Madison
(608) 276-9191
700 Rayovac Drive
Madison, WI
Credentials
Credentials: PhD, LCSW
Licensed in Wisconsin
32 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Child Abuse and Neglect, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Dissociative Disorders, Family Dysfunction, Interpersonal Relationships, Multicultural Issues, Phobias, Runaways, Self Abuse, Sexual Abuse/Rape, Stress, Trauma/PTSD
Populations Served
Children of Divorce, Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual, Offenders/Perpetrators, Step Families
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

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Ms. Jill Bley-Klink
Aurora Behavioral Health
(414) 773-4312
6980 N. Port Washington Rd. #202
Milwaukee, WI
Credentials
Credentials: LPC
Licensed in Wisconsin
16 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Addictions/Other (gambling, sex, etc.), Addictions/Substance, Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Bipolar Disorders, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Eating Disorders, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Obsessive/Compulsive Disorder, Phobias, Sexual Abuse/Rape, Str
Populations Served
ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics), Children of Divorce
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59), Seniors (60 +)

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Judith Augsburger
(309) 692-1095
Woodstock, IL
Practice Areas
Career Development, Childhood & Adolescence, Counselor Education, Couples & Family, Mental Health/Agency Counseling
Certifications
National Certified Counselor

Mrs. Gwen P Ames, MSW, LCSW
(815) 344-5061
3923 Mercy Dr.,Suite F
Mchenry, IL
Specialties
ADHD,Anger Management,Anxiety or Fears,Child or Adolescent Issues,Depression,Divorce,Infertility or Adoption,Loss or Grief,Parenting,Relationship Issues
Education
Gwen Ames received a Bachelor of Social Work degree from Governors State University and a Master of Social Work degree from Chicago State University. She is a Licensed Clinicial Social Work license and does therapy/counseling in the State of IL
Insurance
Yes
Membership Organizations
Meridian Behavioral Health

Robert Daugherty, LMFT
(262) 767-0440
Professional Psychological Services
Burlington, WI
Specialties
Marriage, Divorce Recovery, Depression, Anxiety
Gender
Male
Education
M.A. Psychology
Insurance
accept most insurances

Ms. Jill Goldsworthy
Aurora Behavioral Health
(414) 773-4312
6980 N. Port Washington Rd. #202
Milwaukee, WI
Credentials
Credentials: LCSW
Licensed in Wisconsin
7 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Addictions/Other (gambling, sex, etc.), Addictions/Substance, Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Attention Deficit (Hyperactivity) Disorder, Bipolar Disorders, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Eating Disorders, Family Dysfunction, Obsessive/Compulsive Disorder,
Populations Served
ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics)
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

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Ms. Sally Tarvid
Pathways Counseling Center
(262) 641-9790
13105 W. Bluemound Rd. Suite 100
Brookfield, WI
Credentials
Credentials: LCSW
Licensed in Wisconsin
9 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Attention Deficit (Hyperactivity) Disorder, Behavioral Problems, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Parenting Issues, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Education/Personal Development, Anger Management, Women's Issues
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Children (6-12), Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

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11 Quick Questions about Divorce

11 Quick Questions About Divorce


1. How does the quality of one's relationship with their ex-spouse influence the psychological adjustment of their children?

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. When parents model angry, selfish and bitter interaction with one another, their children learn that these disrespectful behaviors are the protocol for how people should be treated. It is no wonder that children from high conflict divorce have a higher incidence of failed relationships later in life. I believe this is why.

2. You write, "Smart parenting is all about trading the momentary relief of venting anger and frustration at your co-parent for the benefit of raising healthier, more productive, and less stressed children." How can a parent deal with their anger in a healthy way that does not cause more pain to their children?
Break a clay pot, scream into a pillow, make a voodoo doll out of modeling clay. Do what ever you want (as long as it is legal and outside of your children's presence) but do not expose your children to toxic emotion. Oh yes, and read my book.

3. How can a person de-escalate the conflict between themselves and their ex-spouse?

It takes two people to fight. The key to de-scalation is ignoring insult and offering reasonable compromises. This takes practice because often, in poor co-parenting relationships people cannot resist the urge to fight fire with fire. Actually to continue the imagery, it is best to fight fire with water. Parents often ask, "Why shoud I give the co-parent what he/she wants?" The answer to this is "because when you can, and when it doesn't much matter one way or the other (i.e. an extra few minutes here and there) the reduction in conflict benefits the kids."

4. What is the "package" that can make a difference in the quality of communication between the ex-spouses?

Resist the urge to "dig" or "poke" with sarcasm and direct insults. Understand that if you hate the co-parent, it is more difficult to love the part of your child that came from the co-parent. Take relief in the fact that any communication you have with the co-parent has a beginning and an end (at least for the moment) and when the contact is over you don't have to go back home and sleep with them.

5. Can you share with us some practical tips for negotiating with a former spouse who is a jerk?
Again, realize that giving in on minor issues is not a sign of personal weakness; on the contrary it is s sign of strength. Understand that what makes people as difficult as they are is that they "enjoy the fight." Fighting, bickering and nitpicking is feeding a part of them that they enjoy -- and that most likely y...

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