dad dads
Returning User? Login Here
» » ยป

Divorce Counseling Ludlow MA

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. Read on for more.

Mr. Jim Caldwell
Springfield Technical Community College
(413) 306-0914
Armory Square Bldg 16, Rm 131-Veterans Services
Springfield, MA
Credentials
Credentials: LMFT
Licensed in Massachusetts
7 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Couple or Marital Issues, Dissociative Disorders, Family Dysfunction, Sexual Abuse/Rape, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Education/Personal Development
Populations Served
Military/Veterans
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

Data Provided By:
Mr. Daniel McLean
Private Practice
(413) 478-9526
48 N. Pleasant St., Suite 201
Amherst, MA
Credentials
Credentials: LICSW
Licensed in Massachusetts
16 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Interpersonal Relationships, Parenting Issues, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Life Transitions
Populations Served
ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics)
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

Data Provided By:
Mr. Reed Schimmelfing
(413) 586-7454
104 Main Street Suite 201
Northampton, MA
Credentials
Credentials: MSW, LICSW
Licensed in Massachusetts
30 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Aging, Bipolar Disorders, Career/Employment Concerns, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Grief/Loss, Interpersonal Relationships, Parenting Issues, Stress, Life Transitions, Sleep Disorders, Men's Issues, Postpartum Depression
Populations Served
ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics), Children of Divorce, Twins, Caregivers, Step Families, Grandparents
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59), Seniors (60 +)

Data Provided By:
Carlton Pickron
(413) 572-5272
Westfield, MA
Practice Areas
Career Development, Counselor Education, Couples & Family, Sports Counseling, Mental Health/Agency Counseling
Certifications
National Certified Counselor

John "jack" Bonina
(508) 534-8209
104 Main Street, Northampton, MA 01060104 Main Street
Northampton, MA
Specialties
Relationship Issues, Parenting, Divorce
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Age: Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19),Adults,Elders (65+)
Average Cost
$80 - $150
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: Yes
Accepted Insurance Plans: Aetna

Ms. Kerry Tuttle
Just Breathe Connecticut, LLC
(860) 436-8079
137 Hazard Avenue Suite 5
Enfield, CT
Credentials
Credentials: MSW, LCSW
Licensed in Connecticut
15 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Anxiety/Panic Disorders, Behavioral Problems, Couple or Marital Issues, Depression, Family Dysfunction, Interpersonal Relationships, Learning Disabilities, Parenting Issues, Physical Illness/Impairment, Pregnancy/Childbirth, Stress, Trauma/PTSD, Life Trans
Populations Served
AIDS/HIV+, Children of Divorce, Military/Veterans, Disabled, Sensory Impaired (hearing, vision, etc), Alzheimer's, Caregivers, Step Families, Chronic Illness, Cancer Patients, Brain/Head Injured, Obese or Overweight, College Students, Multiple Chemical Sen
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Preschool (Under 6), Children (6-12), Adolescents (13-17), Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59), Seniors (60 +)

Data Provided By:
Ms. Maria Dye
(413) 584-1557
57 Gothic Street
Northampton, MA
Credentials
Credentials: LICSW
Licensed in Massachusetts
30 Years of Experience
Problems Served
Depression, Family Dysfunction, Interpersonal Relationships, Parenting Issues, Life Transitions, Women's Issues
Populations Served
ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics), Children of Divorce, Step Families
Membership Organizations
HelpPro.com
Age Groups Served
Young Adults (18-25), Adults (26-59)

Data Provided By:
Maria Elizabeth LeBlanc, M.Ed, MSW, LICSW
(413) 695-3707
195 Russell Street, 2nd FL, Suite B9
Hadley, MA
Specialties
Addictions or Substance Abuse,Anxiety or Fears,Child or Adolescent Issues,Chronic Pain or Illness,Depression,Elderly Persons Disorders,Gay Lesbian Issues,Loss or Grief,OCD,Relationship Issues
Gender
Female
Education
I have a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology from Springfield College, Springfield, MA and a Masters degree in Clinical Social Work from Smith College School for Social Work in Northampton, MA. I have worked in hospitals o/p centers and crisis
Insurance
Yes
Membership Organizations
Maria E. LeBlanc, LICSW

VANESSA L. ADAMS, M.Ed, C.A.G.S., C.H., C.P.C.- Psychotherapist, Hypnotherapist, Life/Health & Care
(413) 522-2815
Offices in Amherst and Orange Massachusetts,409 Main Street - Suite # 125 (
Amherst, MA
Specialties
ADHD,Anxiety or Fears,Career Counseling,Chronic Pain or Illness,Depression,Life Coaching,Loss or Grief,OCD,Spirituality,Trauma and PTSD
Gender
Female
Education
Masters in Education & C.A.G. S.- Certificate in Advanced Graduate Studies in Counseling Psychology-Cambridge College, MA.Certified-National Guild of Hypnotists in Adv. Hypnotherapy in Medical/Pain Management, Smoking, Weight.Life/Health Coach
Insurance
No
Membership Organizations
Access Change

Cynthia Hartdegen
(413) 347-9946
30 Day Avenue
Westfield, MA
Specialties
Trauma and PTSD, Divorce, Relationship Issues, Bipolar Disorder
Qualification
Years In Practice: 30+ Years
Patient Info
Ethnicity: Any
Gender: All
Payment Methods
Sliding Scale: No

Data Provided By:

11 Quick Questions about Divorce

11 Quick Questions About Divorce


1. How does the quality of one's relationship with their ex-spouse influence the psychological adjustment of their children?

Regardless of whether children grow up in one home or two, parents provide a model for conducting important relationships. Part of every important relationship is mutual respect, civilized interaction, problem solving and conflict resolution, compromise, appreciation and gratitude, patience and forgiveness. When parents model angry, selfish and bitter interaction with one another, their children learn that these disrespectful behaviors are the protocol for how people should be treated. It is no wonder that children from high conflict divorce have a higher incidence of failed relationships later in life. I believe this is why.

2. You write, "Smart parenting is all about trading the momentary relief of venting anger and frustration at your co-parent for the benefit of raising healthier, more productive, and less stressed children." How can a parent deal with their anger in a healthy way that does not cause more pain to their children?
Break a clay pot, scream into a pillow, make a voodoo doll out of modeling clay. Do what ever you want (as long as it is legal and outside of your children's presence) but do not expose your children to toxic emotion. Oh yes, and read my book.

3. How can a person de-escalate the conflict between themselves and their ex-spouse?

It takes two people to fight. The key to de-scalation is ignoring insult and offering reasonable compromises. This takes practice because often, in poor co-parenting relationships people cannot resist the urge to fight fire with fire. Actually to continue the imagery, it is best to fight fire with water. Parents often ask, "Why shoud I give the co-parent what he/she wants?" The answer to this is "because when you can, and when it doesn't much matter one way or the other (i.e. an extra few minutes here and there) the reduction in conflict benefits the kids."

4. What is the "package" that can make a difference in the quality of communication between the ex-spouses?

Resist the urge to "dig" or "poke" with sarcasm and direct insults. Understand that if you hate the co-parent, it is more difficult to love the part of your child that came from the co-parent. Take relief in the fact that any communication you have with the co-parent has a beginning and an end (at least for the moment) and when the contact is over you don't have to go back home and sleep with them.

5. Can you share with us some practical tips for negotiating with a former spouse who is a jerk?
Again, realize that giving in on minor issues is not a sign of personal weakness; on the contrary it is s sign of strength. Understand that what makes people as difficult as they are is that they "enjoy the fight." Fighting, bickering and nitpicking is feeding a part of them that they enjoy -- and that most likely y...

Click here to read the rest of this article from GreatDad.com